Which instrument should my child learn first?

Welcome to Raising Musos, that supports parents in guiding their child’s musical journey with expert advice and practical tips. I’m Eliza Bourgault, and today we’re exploring a big question that so many parents face when their child shows an interest in music:

Which instrument should my child learn first?

It’s exciting to see your child curious about music—but with so many options available, it can be tough to know where to begin. Should they start with piano? Try guitar? Or maybe something totally different? Let’s break it down to help you make the best choice for your child.

What to Consider When Choosing an Instrument

1. Age & Physical Development

Younger children (ages 4–6) typically do best with instruments that are physically accessible and help build foundational skills.
Piano and violin are great early starters—they’re well-suited for small hands and promote coordination and ear training.

As children grow (age 7+), they can explore instruments that require more physical strength or breath control, like guitar, flute, or drums.

2. Personality & Interests

Understanding your child’s personality can guide your choice:

• Independent and focused? Piano might suit them well since it doesn’t require ensemble work.

• Energetic and rhythmic? Try percussion or drums!

• Melodic and expressive? Violin or flute can be a beautiful fit.

• Social and collaborative? An instrument used in orchestras or bands (like violin, trumpet, or clarinet) may keep them motivated.

3. Accessibility & Practicality

Piano is often recommended as a first instrument because:

• It visually displays musical concepts like pitch and harmony.

• It allows students to play both melody and accompaniment.

• It’s foundational for learning music theory and sight-reading.

Guitar is another popular beginner choice: it’s portable, versatile, and great for singing along.

Violin and other string instruments are fantastic for ear training, though they require careful precision early on.

Woodwind and brass instruments (like flute or trumpet) tend to suit children aged 7+, once they’ve developed enough lung power and control.

4. Long-Term Growth Potential

Some instruments offer an easier path into others later:

• Piano builds strong reading skills and coordination, helping students transition to other instruments.

• Violin fosters deep listening skills and fine motor control, valuable across musical disciplines.

• Guitar encourages musical independence and improvisation early on.

Your child’s first instrument can serve as a gateway to a lifelong love of music—regardless of whether they stick with it or eventually explore others.

🎵 Final Thoughts: Follow Their Curiosity

At the end of the day, the best instrument is the one your child is genuinely excited about.

It’s completely normal to try one instrument and change course if it’s not the right fit. What matters most is nurturing a love for music and supporting your child as they explore their interests.

If you’re still unsure where to begin, piano or violin are often excellent foundational instruments. But remember—joy and curiosity are your best guides!

Have a question or story to share? I’d love to hear what your child is learning (or wants to learn!).

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Thanks for reading, and stay tuned for more insights on music education!