Should My Child Take a Music Exam?

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At some point, many parents ask the same question:
Should my child take a music exam?

Maybe you grew up doing AMEB exams yourself. Maybe you’ve heard other families talking about it. Or maybe your child’s teacher has brought it up and you’re wondering: is this the right step?

The short answer?
It depends.

Music exams can be a powerful tool for structure, motivation, and confidence-building but they’re not right for every child, and they’re certainly not the only way to grow.

In this article, we’ll explore the pros and cons of music exams so you can make an informed decision based on your child’s needs, personality, and goals.

What Is a Music Exam, Exactly?

Music exams (like those run by AMEB, ABRSM or Trinity College) are formal assessments that cover a wide range of musical skills:
• Performance
• Technical work (like scales)
• Sight-reading
• Aural training
• General knowledge

They provide an external benchmark and are typically graded, with certificates awarded for passing each level.

The Benefits of Music Exams

1. They Offer Structure and Purpose

For some students, having a deadline and a clear goal can be highly motivating. Exams give shape to their learning and a reason to practise regularly.

2. Recognition Feels Good

There’s something special about receiving a certificate after working hard. It can give students a sense of pride and build their confidence, especially when the effort is acknowledged by family, teachers, and peers.

3. They Encourage Well-Rounded Skills

To prepare properly, students have to build multiple skills — not just learn a few pieces. That means stronger listening, technique, and overall musicianship.

4. It Builds Resilience

Preparing for an exam teaches time management, perseverance, and how to handle nerves. All of which are life skills, not just music skills.

The Drawbacks of Music Exams

1. They Can Take the Joy Out of Music

Let’s be honest — exams can sometimes make music feel like a chore. If the process becomes all about passing rather than enjoying the journey, students can lose their original spark.

2. Repertoire Becomes Limited

Students often spend months polishing just a few exam pieces. That means less room for creativity, exploration, and discovering new genres or composers.

3. Not All Students Are Suited for Exams

Some children are perfectionists. Others get anxious easily or struggle with comparison. For them, an exam might feel like pressure rather than opportunity.

4. It Can Shift the Parent–Child Dynamic

Even with the best intentions, parents can unintentionally become focused on marks and progress — which can lead to stress, frustration, or conflict at home.

Questions to Ask Before Saying Yes

Before enrolling your child in an exam, consider the following:
• Does my child want to do this?
• Do they enjoy working towards a clear goal?
• Are they technically and emotionally ready?
• Am I doing this for them — or to track progress or compare?
• Will this be one part of a rich musical journey — not the whole focus?

What We Recommend at Music Makers Academy

We only recommend exams when:
• The child is internally motivated
• The timing is right (not rushed)
• The student is ready, both musically and emotionally
• The exam is just one part of a broader experience — not the destination

What If You Decide Against It?

That’s completely okay.
Exams are one path, not the only one.

There are lots of other ways to provide structure and celebrate progress:
• Performing at studio concerts or recitals
• Recording a song or composing their own piece
• Working towards a school performance or community event
• Internal checklists or mini-assessments
• Simply playing a piece for family or friends

The goal isn’t to tick a box — it’s to grow as a musician.

Final Thoughts

Music exams can be a great tool, but they’re not a requirement for progress.

What matters most is that your child continues developing skills, confidence, and a love for music regardless of whether a certificate is involved.

If you’re unsure whether to take that step, talk to your child’s teacher. A good teacher will help you make the right call, and guide you toward a path that balances challenge and joy.

Got questions about exams?
We’d love to hear from you.
Reach out at hello@musicmakersacademy.com.au or message us on Instagram.

You can also listen to the full episode of Raising Musos on Youtube.